How
liberating would it be to have a man beg to pay you to make him suffer? Take
this scene published in an article called “Insidethe twisted world of the Internet's priciest fetish” on the Daily Dot:
In the course of her daily routine,
there are occasionally moments that give Mistress Bella pause. One in
particular stands out: watching an almost completely naked man plead for her
permission to pay her to allow him to rip a strip of duct tape off his penis.
Mistress
Bella earned $100 from that experience alone. And that, my friend, is the weird
world of financial domination – otherwise known as “findom.”
The
Concept Behind Findom
You've
heard of BDSM, right? With all the erotic novels and short stories that have
seen sales increase ever since The Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy made
lots of money, you're surely aware now of the very real world of seeking pain
for pleasure.
In
findom, men are very much willing to pay just to see themselves degraded and
humiliated all in the name of achieving sexual pleasure.
And
the benefits for the dominatrix aren't just financial. These men, called pay
pigs, go to great lengths in offering clothes, shoes or sexy lingerie. Some
even offer gift cards to their doms for them to spend however they want.
The
Different Kinds of Findom
In
an article on Vice, a financial dominatrix called Cleo Tantra answered a
couple of questions regarding this very expensive fetish. According to her,
there are two ways to make it true financial domination.
First,
a dominatrix should know everything there is to know about her “pet.” This
information includes the amount of money he makes, how much he spends and where
he spends his money. For Cleo, she does a budget for her pet, making sure all
the basic bills are covered and that he gets some savings while the others go
to her. Basically, she controls all of his spending.
The
second type is the basic form of BDSM sprinkled with some financial perks. The
dominatrix and pet build a relationship through conversations, email or any
other kind of communication. Then, she gives him tasks of the humiliating kind,
of course. In return for his appreciation, he pays her a sum of money or gives
her gifts. The dominatrix can also penalize her pet if he fails with the
assigned tasks or she just isn't happy with him.
Paying
to Finance a Lifestyle
In
essence, findom is like having someone finance a lifestyle that you want. For
example, in the Daily Dot article, a findom by the name of Princess Sierra has
an Amazon wish list of gifts she would want to have. The price ranges from very
affordable (spatula) to somewhat expensive (flatscreen TV).
And
the great benefit from all this for doms is that men are willing to shed money
for these wants and needs for the perverse pleasure of being humiliated –
whether publicly or in private.
The
Key to Being a Findom
Women
who want to become successful in asserting power over a man should definitely
possess a dominant quality about them. Think of it as training a dog where you
need to show the animal who's boss so that they heed to your every command.
Just
like Mistress Bella in the Daily Dot article, you have to want to be in
control. Men are happy knowing their masters life is made easier through the
money they give them. Then again, you do need to make them suffer and control
them in every way possible.
Whether
it be paying your bills or buying your groceries, the world of findom revolves
around having men fork out a lot of money in exchange for pain and humiliation.
Or like Pinky
Galore says in a Salon article, “Money can hurt a lot harder than a whip
sometimes. It's a very sexy and powerful weapon.”
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