50 Shades of Grey Training - Any Takers?

Can a woman wishing to become a female dominant learn something from 50 Shades of Grey?

In EL James' 50 Shades of Grey, the man was clearly the dominant one in the relationship. It's Christian Grey who has the Red Room of Pain and it's he who takes pleasure from torturing Anastasia Steele and taking pleasure from it.

Although there are countless other literature on females dominating men, 50 Shades of Grey portrays a male dominant and a female submissive. However, this doesn't mean that you couldn't take a hint from Christian Grey himself when it comes to dominating your submissive. 

That said, here are some ways to bring that 50 Shades flavor into the bedroom:

A blindfold does wonders. When one sense is taken away from someone, all the others are heightened. And this is what happens when you decide to blindfold your man. You don't even have to buy items just so you can blindfold your partner – be creative instead. Does he have some ties lying around? Use those to cover his eyes.

However, if you do want to splurge for this particular session, you can never go wrong with purchasing silk. It has a nice feel to the body and it will definitely enhance the experience.

When your partner is blindfolded, they have no idea on what you're going to to next and this brings up the anticipation level to different heights.

Don't be afraid to try new things. By trying new things, this means testing different ways of tying up your partner. Again, the key fabric to use here is silk. Now, don't trouble yourself with learning the different knots to tie your man with. Knowing different knots is a sailors job and yours is to please your man.

So, tie him up how you want to. It doesn't even matter if the knot is tight or not. A submissive knows that he is bound and that means staying put. Besides, when you knot it too tight, you might risk cutting off circulation. And well, that is never good.

Another alternative to using a piece of fabric is the use of handcuffs – just make sure you know where they keys are.

Learn the art of spanking. Spanking is very sensual, and there are different ways to give him pleasure while only ever slightly hurting him. A light spank can be enough to send him over the edge. A little spanking can be quite pleasurable and you can use your hands or a paddle. Hey, you can even be resourceful and use kitchen items – a spatula, perhaps?

Whipping gently does the trick. If you want to be more adventurous and emulate Christian Grey – the female version of course – then getting a whip is for you. You won't have a problem finding one as there are multiple sex shops and adult stores that sell these items.

There's lots of things you can do with a whip. You can drag it all over his body – back, legs, chest, etc. Better yet, do this while he is blindfolded and tied up. Then when you've had enough teasing, whip him but be gentle.

Don't underestimate nipples. Nipple clamps played a role in 50 Shades, but if you're not that much of a risk taker, there's always the simple lick, suck and pinch. Nipples are highly erogenous zones and you want to give your partners a little loving when you're dominating him.

You wont immediately be a master at domination in just one try. This is why repeated sessions will make you much more comfortable and maybe even a little more willing to explore. 


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