The Secret to Phone Chats

Have you heard about mobile apps that let you send kinky and titillating texts or pictures without anyone else knowing about them, except you and the receiving party? This only shows how easy it is to have more fun and adventure with your phone these days. Unless you and the other person are on the same wavelength, however, sexy phone chats might not pan out.

Say you managed to start an erotic conversation and she’s taking the bait. How do you make her swallow the hook, line and sinker? 

 

Take your imagination to the next level

Sex has always been fun, but it’s mind-blowing if anticipation is built up towards the actual intercourse. Giving someone a preview of what you want to do with them later, will make it an event to look forward to. This is where erotic phone chats come into play. Calling or texting her in the middle of the day just to tell her that you wished she was with you, clad in nothing else but a pair of stilettos, is sure to make her day.

But why wait for later when you can satisfy each other now? There are more ways than one to use your imagination and play with words. Done right, you’ll be having so much fun, even when you’re “a phone call away”.

A word of caution: don’t go insane. Being imaginative and having crazy ideas are two different things. Know which one you’re playing out.

Be descriptive, but not boring

A lot of people read books because the description that authors used are so vivid, they can almost touch, feel, smell, hear and taste it. The same thing should be true during a phone chat. Since you can’t read each other’s mind or see what the other is doing, you have to describe everything as you would have her imagine it. However, it’s possible that you’d end up delivering a boring monologue. What do you need to do then?

Be in the zone. Enjoy the moment. Let your body feel every bit of the fantasy that you’re both creating. Close your eyes and just imagine her doing exactly what she’s describing to you. Tell her how hard you are, how tight and wet she feels. Don’t hesitate to make sound effects or simply moan, pant or give words of encouragement.

Don’t forget to close the door or make sure you’re alone, before you indulge in a hot, steamy phone chat. 

 

Dirty talk the right way

Believe it or not, there are proper ways to talk dirty and using bad words is not always welcomed. Dirty talk is defined as words or phrases designed to turn up the heat further and drive you and your partner to sexual pleasure. It comes in two types: soft core and hard core. The former is similar to saying, “I can’t wait to feel your mouth around me”, while the latter runs along the lines of, “I want you to rub your pussy all over my face”. What you use, greatly depends on how you both like it — soft or hard?

This is why agreeing on the type of dirty talk you use is a must. You also need to set boundaries, so you don’t end up saying something she doesn’t want to hear. Most importantly, know that dirty talk doesn’t mean disrespect, so make sure you don’t bring such talks outside the bedroom.

Don’t forget the most important ingredient in phone chats — romance. Being romantic and sensual won’t cost a thing, yet bring amazing rewards and perks. Talking or texting sexy on the phone before the actual sex is sure to make the whole experience mind blowing and orgasmic. So make sure you say it right.

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